DIVORCE: If you’re thinking about divorce, have you asked yourself how to prepare your money for a divorce? Here are six (6) steps to help prepare you financially on successfully navigating the emotional road known as divorce....
Divorce and Family Mediator
There are times when spouses make decisions regarding their assets, which they later regret for a variety of reasons:
They want the process over and done with.
They are afraid of being bullied and think that being generous will make things easier.
They want to avoid a big battle which could end up in court.
They want to part on good terms because they will be co-parenting and they would prefer a friendly relationship with their former spouse.
They feel guilty and think they should compensate their former spouse.
Later on, they feel angry and realize that they should have been less generous.
What can be done?
In mediation couples will ask if, at a later date, they can go to court to make changes to their agreement.
The truth is, the courts are not too happy to have people knocking at their door because they changed their mind. If the party can prove:
By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC
As a divorced parent you owe it to your children to diligently watch their behavior, listen to their conversations and be aware of any changes that may be due to challenges related to the divorce. Children can adapt well to life after divorce. But it’s up to you to catch signs they may be confused, anxious, insecure or in other ways having problems in their new reality.
Here are 5 ways to know your children are doing well, despite your divorce:
1. They continue to thrive at school
When school grades fall or aggressive behavior develops, parents need to be proactive and not wait on the sidelines. Conversations with teachers and school counselors can give you a better perspective on your child’s needs. Don’t hesitate to talk to your children as well to learn more about what’s going on and how they feel about the changes and new challenges in their lives. It’s imperative...
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One of the saddest consequences of divorce for parents is the alone-time when your children are visiting their other parent. While short-term periods when the kids are away can be a welcome respite for an over-scheduled single parent, that’s not always the case. For many parents the intervals between seeing the children can be long and lonely. This is especially so during the holiday season which can become a particularly challenging time – made even more difficult when friends and neighbors are busy with their own family gatherings.
It’s really important for parents who are alone during the winter holidays to get creative and absorbed in activities that you find personally fulfilling. This time of year can also be an opportunity to reflect on meeting your own needs and finding friends and activities that bring joy into your life on a personal level rather than a parental level.
Among the greatest challenges divorced parents face is avoiding depression...
The holidays may be hard to navigate for divorced families– especially in the beginning – know that you are not alone and that you and your children will adjust to the new normal as time goes on.
Here are a few tips to help the transition for all members of the family be a little bit easier:
Listen to your child’s concerns.
Keep old traditions and start some new ones.
Maintain the sense of family.
Happy Holidays to you and yours from us.
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The holidays can be demanding for many reasons, but if you're prone to anxiety they can be downright overwhelming. The gifts, the parties, the baking, the family—or perhaps the absence of these things—can make the season stressful, chaotic or just plain lonely....
This short blog will discuss factors that affect your chances for Divorce. When looking at marriage and divorce trends throughout the past thirty years, certain tendencies emerged to help identify factors that affect the chances of a couple divorcing....
My ex/baby daddy/momma/etc. is impossible to communicate with! More times than not, when a client comes to our offices with a custody matter, communication problems between the parents is the driving force behind the dispute....